How To Talk Dirty
Dirty Talk Mistakes
Here's a very common question I get on
how to talk dirty...
QUESTION:
Things are pretty decent in the bedroom
between me and my man...
But recently he wants me to talk dirty to him.
I have no problem doing it for him because it
turns him on...
BUT I tried saying a few naughty things are
realized I had know idea what to say...and
stopped because I didn't want to make a fool
out of myself.
Do you have any tips for talking dirty?
ANSWER:
There's nothing worse
Usually, it has the opposite affect than you
want it to - which is turn him off.
(Hey, you do get points for trying)
Here are some guidelines to follow...
1) Cute Pet names.
I know - pet names are meant to be affectionate
and they can be cute - but they have their place.
When you're using pet names like 'Snuggle Bunny'
or 'Mr. Biggs' it congers up a whole different set
of feelings - NOT triggering the arousal response.
It's an association thing - and your pet name is
probably NOT associated with arousal.
So cut pet names out entirely.
2) Creativity...
There is VERY little advice available on the finer
points of talking dirty (trust me I looked)
One of the main pieces of advice I found over
and over (even your friends will recommend)
is to be creative.
Mistake!
That is the absolute worst thing to do. Why?
- You're under pressure to come up with something
clever and most people choke when they're on
the spot increasing your chances - flopping
- Do you want him to laugh or be aroused?
Trust me, sometimes those creative lines can be
very funny!
The hottest dirty talk is the simplest.
3) Attitude
Everyone knows bad acting when they see
it, right? It's the same with talking dirty.
When you're saying something you can't think
or feel one thing and try to communicate another.
The line will land on him with less of an impact
or affect because it's less believable.
'Friendly advice'
Be careful of the advice you get from friends.
Oh, I know they mean well and I'm sure your
friend is a great person - but unless you've
talked to her lover and he's given the thumbs-up
that her dirty talk is hot hot hot...
The key to success is to model yourself after who?
People who are already successful - and find out
how they do what they do.
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To a hotter you,
Jay Archer
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